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Suffering bullying |
I have been bullied...
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The bully assaulted me...
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My friends and colleagues make fun of me...
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I was excluded...
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(n = 70) |
I have been called by nicknames...
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Witnessing bullying |
I witnessed when I was in 6th-grade....
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My 8-year-old brother has always been bullied because of his ears...
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...he was black and just for that reason he was discriminated against, he was death threat and he had to move...
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(n = 12) |
I have witnessed many people kicking a person, cursing and torturing...
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Defending bullied colleagues |
...everyone in my class made fun of him because of that, except me and my friends who defended him...
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I do everything to protect my brother, but sometimes I am not always with him...
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When I witnessed that scene, I even tried to go there to talk to them, but it did not help and then I went back there again and said that it was not right...
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(n = 05) |
I told the person to stop ...
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2
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Physical characteristics |
...because of the color of my skin...
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Because of my weight...
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My height...
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...because of my last name ...
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my appearance because the difference is strange for people...
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(n = 24) |
... by the way I am ...
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Showing excellence or limitations in studies |
... for being characterized as a "nerd"...
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... when I do homework...
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(n = 03) |
...because I was late for a school year ...
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Sexual orientation |
Because I am gay ...
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(n = 04) |
Because my brother is gay ...
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Being introverted |
Because I amshy...
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(n = 03) |
3
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Negative feelings |
I got depressed all year, I was really sad...
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I feel bad and it also makes me very angry...
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(n = 9) |
I was very humiliated...
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Psychosomatic symptoms |
I can't concentrate on school activities
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I am indisposed to do something ...
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(n = 10) |
I was depressed, self-mutilated and diagnosed with bulimia months ago ...
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Damage to social interaction and school performance |
I spent more than a month without leaving home and without doing what I like the most: playing ball...
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I went home crying and even made up headaches to not go to school...
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(n = 4) |
I delayed a school year ...
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4
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Talk to somebody |
Choose someone to tell how you feel...
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You should look for the school superior, a teacher or principal to try to solve this problem...
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With my friends I have overcome a lot...
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(n = 11) |
I had a diary that I wrote everything, my mother read when I was at school, and when I got home she talked to me...
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Relying on faith |
One thing that helps me when I am down is to think about the text of Joshua 1, 19...
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(n = 05) |
I am over it by going to church...
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Acceptance |
I believe that everyone deserves a second chance, including the aggressor...
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Loving yourself first is very important...
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If they were beaten, cursed, rejected, they would not like it...
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Then every time I tell my friends to put themselves in his shoes
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And each person must accept the opinion of others...
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(n = 24) |
I accepted myself the way I am...
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Be strong and capable |
What matters is what you want, don't cry for things that aren't worth it
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Don't let this be stronger than you! Stay on your feet! No matter what they think or talk about you...
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(n = 08) |
Turn suffering into a positive thing and never give up on dreams and move on ...
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